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General Discussion / Re: Facebook Culture
« Last post by hannahfisher on May 14, 2014, 09:50:22 am »Hey there!
First of all, I totally and completely agree about posting on facebook and other social media in celebration. It seems most appropriate to keep those posts (if there are ANY) to the actual FB pages of the board. I think all of the boards CAN be active about this. WAVE chose to no longer post on individual pages for any petitions in order to combat this. It might be worth seeing if all of the boards would consider doing this?
That said, I know what it's like to face rejection and I think that sometimes the best way to begin to cope with a lot of it (seeing as we will all deal with it in our time in theatre) is to learn how to celebrate the successes of your peers as much as possible - I say this outside of the potentially exclusive facebook culture that we can control. I think I can speak for many of the boards in saying that our decisions are always extremely difficult because there are so many talented people on this campus and I wouldn't want anyone to feel like they are a failure for not getting a slot!! The reason why we keep overproducing is because we want to give as many people opportunities as possible.
Finally, as a person whose apartment has hosted parties and posted pictures on facebook, I want to first of all apologize if any of it ever felt as exclusive and hurtful. It was certainly not our intention. Throwing parties in this community is often difficult because our apartments simply can't hold all of the people we care about or have worked with - if I had my way I would invite everyone!
I don't say this to excuse the photos or to disregard your emotions, but to make this feel less purposeful and/or calculated! And while it's true for me that taking photos and putting them on Facebook IS about preserving memories since that is where I keep many of my pictures with my friends, I am totally hearing where you are coming from and I will keep this in mind in the future.
Even if you weren't referring to our party, I want you to know that talking about what makes you feel left out helps us figure out what to change. So thank you for being honest.
First of all, I totally and completely agree about posting on facebook and other social media in celebration. It seems most appropriate to keep those posts (if there are ANY) to the actual FB pages of the board. I think all of the boards CAN be active about this. WAVE chose to no longer post on individual pages for any petitions in order to combat this. It might be worth seeing if all of the boards would consider doing this?
That said, I know what it's like to face rejection and I think that sometimes the best way to begin to cope with a lot of it (seeing as we will all deal with it in our time in theatre) is to learn how to celebrate the successes of your peers as much as possible - I say this outside of the potentially exclusive facebook culture that we can control. I think I can speak for many of the boards in saying that our decisions are always extremely difficult because there are so many talented people on this campus and I wouldn't want anyone to feel like they are a failure for not getting a slot!! The reason why we keep overproducing is because we want to give as many people opportunities as possible.
Finally, as a person whose apartment has hosted parties and posted pictures on facebook, I want to first of all apologize if any of it ever felt as exclusive and hurtful. It was certainly not our intention. Throwing parties in this community is often difficult because our apartments simply can't hold all of the people we care about or have worked with - if I had my way I would invite everyone!
I don't say this to excuse the photos or to disregard your emotions, but to make this feel less purposeful and/or calculated! And while it's true for me that taking photos and putting them on Facebook IS about preserving memories since that is where I keep many of my pictures with my friends, I am totally hearing where you are coming from and I will keep this in mind in the future.
Even if you weren't referring to our party, I want you to know that talking about what makes you feel left out helps us figure out what to change. So thank you for being honest.
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